Titled after Chinese personal ads, one account suggests that the dating scene in Beijing is “sad” with particular difficulties for expatriate Chinese women hoping to find romance. Older women in such relations have recently been described as “cougars”, and other aspects of the involved persons are judged and, and there are numerous sources of advice available. Clerics run officially sanctioned internet dating agencies with dating site response rates rules. Parents often place matrimonial ads in newspapers or online, ballroom dancing is one way to get to know somebody on a date.
And places women in a precarious position of having to balance personal success against traditional Chinese relationships.